Given that, $m,n > 0$
And,
- $x^{2} + mx + 2n = 0 \quad \longrightarrow (1) $
- $x^{2} + 2nx + m = 0 \quad \longrightarrow (2) $
We know that, $ax^{2} + bx + c = 0$ have real root.
Then, $ \boxed{D \geq 0} $
$ \Rightarrow b^{2} – 4ac \geq 0 $
For equation $(1),$
$ m^{2} – 8n \geq 0 $
$ \Rightarrow \boxed{ m^{2} \geq 8n} \; \longrightarrow (3) $
For equation $(2),$
$ (2n)^{2} – 4m \geq 0 $
$ \Rightarrow 4n^{2} – 4m \geq 0 $
$ \Rightarrow \boxed{n^{2} \geq m} $
$ \Rightarrow \boxed{ n^{4} \geq m^{2}} \; \longrightarrow (4) $
From equation $(3),$ and $(4).$
$ n^{4} \geq m^{2} \geq 8n \; \longrightarrow {5} $
Now, taking first and last term.
$ n^{4} \geq 8n $
$ \Rightarrow n^{3} \geq 2^{3} $
$ \Rightarrow \boxed{ n \geq 2} $
Thus, minimum value of $ n = 2.$
So, $m^{2} \geq 16 $
$ \Rightarrow \boxed { m \geq 4} $
Thus, the minimum value of $m=4.$
Then, the minimum value of $m+n = 4 + 2 = 6.$
$\therefore$ The smallest possible value of $m+n$ is $6.$
Correct Answer$: \text{D}$